Just walk away.

People are ruled by their pasts.  Everything relates back and although you learn from the past is it still as significant as your mind allows it to be?  Should it still control you like it does?  Only the weak let what has happened define who they will be.  I'm sick of asking people how they are or what they are doing and hearing that they are in the same place as before- sad, depressed, bored with life.  Yes everything that has happened is significant but you can break free and be whoever you want tomorrow; as long as you want it and try for it.  How is it that people forget that?  

Feel the closure and don't feel wounded that you are moving forward.  You have to.  Just walk away...